Is She Kidding???!

So, I have been trying to be nice to Zach's new step mom. She is good with Zach. But she doesn't have any kids of her own...and she kisses & hugs him IN FRONT OF MEEEEE all the time. Which really doesn't sit well with me. I dont like the idea of Zach having 2 moms. I will get my redemption when Zach has 2 dads as well, but right now it totally sucks! :(
Today She totally pissed me off, and stomped all over my toes. I took Zach over there because i had to go to work. Jake was asleep and so she started talking to me about Zach. The following is a bit of the convo.... her- "So when zach is at your house and is in a diaper, do you let him use the diaper.. or make him use the toilet?" (because he wears a pull up to bed) me- "uhh, if he is in the diaper, he uses it... but only to go pee" her- "well you probably shouldn't let him use the diaper......." turns to Zach "NO NO ZACH. You're a BIG BOY... YOU USE THE POTTY" ok, for 1......HELL NO. Do NOT discipline MY SON in front of me. Then she turns back to me "YOU should probably not do that, I would like to get rid of the diapers all together." ok for 1) I would like to not buy diapers as well..... but for 2) Don't tell me what to do with MY SON when he is at MY HOUSE. Like its any of her DAMN business. So i said "umm, yea, well personally I dont give a shit if he takes a piss in his diaper, thats what its for!" and turned to Zach and hugged him and left!!!!!! WTF is she serious??? Jake is gonna hear about this later. Anything that has to do with OUR son should be approached by him or me. Not the bitch that he married. I am so beyond annoyed right now........

Here is Zach mowing the lawn.......Anyone that knows him..Knows that he is obsessed with lawn mowers. And is so happy that he is mowing with the actual mower. hahaha. (don't worry, he is being supervised right now!!! hahah)